Martha Stewart's ex-husband hits back over her “abusive” marriage

After Martha Stewart appeared in a brand new Netflix documentary about her life and profession, her ex-husband Andy Stewart released a press release saying he was long gone his “painful and abusive” marriage to the approach to life mogul calmly while publicly criticizing her for discussing the matters that led to their divorce, which became final 34 years ago.

“While Andy quietly moved on with his life, Martha appeared to continue publicly insulting the marriage, including comments in a sensational trailer for an upcoming documentary on Netflix,” said the statement, written and signed by each Andy Stewart and his current wife, Shyla Stewart.

The statement went on Facebook before the documentary was released on Netflix last week, however the statement began circulating online on Thursday. The documentary is directed by Oscar-nominated filmmaker RJ Cutler. In it, the 83-year-old media icon spoke about a number of the dark private times in her outwardly elegant and achieved life. in line with The Cut.

Stewart spoke concerning the pain of her ex-husband's infidelity and subsequent divorce and admitted that she also cheated, greater than once. She also opened up about how she struggled as a brand new mother and recalled her insider training scandal within the early 2000s that landed her in federal prison for five months.

For Stewart fans, the revelations about her long and unhappy marriage to Andy Stewart may not seem so latest. According to Stewart's lore, she married him in 1961 when she was 19 and he was 24, having met him through his sister, who was certainly one of her classmates at Barnard. At the time, Andy Stewart was studying law at Yale but eventually went into book publishing.

Some reports say the wedding worked well to start with, because the two lived in Manhattan in the course of the week, where Stewart “grew orchids in the bathtub.” People magazine reported in 1995. On weekends they restored a schoolhouse within the Berkshires, where they supposedly did the “back to the country thing.”

But in her documentary, Stewart admitted that the warning signs started to appear during her five-month honeymoon in Europe, The Cut reported. While in Florence, Stewart said she kissed a stranger she met within the cathedral while her groom was back on the hotel.

“It wasn't naughty or unfaithful,” Stewart said of the kiss. “It was just emotional from that moment on. That's how I saw it. And it was exciting. I wish we could all have an evening like this.”

In the documentary, Stewart also spoke about her struggles as a young mother to her daughter Alexis, who was born in 1965, The Cut reported. “It turns out that being a mother isn't natural at all,” Stewart explained of her discomfort with having a toddler when she was so young herself.

“There wasn't a lot of affection in our house,” Stewart also said of growing up, in line with The Cut. “How could I be a truly great mother if I didn’t have the training to be a mother?”

After working as a stockbroker on Wall Street for several years, Stewart founded a catering company that might form the idea of her lifestyle empire. According to reports, their already difficult marriage worsened as their success increased. Back in 1980, about seven years before their split, Andy Stewart told People magazine that his perfectionist wife “did not tolerate my carelessness, my stupidity or my eccentricities.”

In 1995, certainly one of the couple's former friends told People that Andy Stewart was “always belittled or insulted by her.” An unauthorized 1997 Stewart biography by Jerry Oppenheimer reported that each Martha and Andy cheated on Stewart, The Cut reported.

In the documentary, Stewart suggested that the infidelity reports were true. “I don’t know how many different girlfriends he had, but I think there were a few,” Stewart said. She also admitted that she had “a very brief affair with a very attractive Irishman” early in her marriage, which she dismissed as “nothing.”

Stewart added: “I would never have broken up a marriage for this. It was like the kiss in that cathedral.”

The documentary producers challenged Stewart on camera by saying that Andy Stewart claimed he didn't cheat on her until she told him about her own affair, The Cut reported. She refuted that claim, saying, “Well, I don’t think that’s true.”

Andy and Shyla Stewart attempted to counter Stewart's portrayal of him of their Facebook post, wherein they described him as a “brilliant publisher, part-time naturalist and wildlife photographer.” Shyla Stewart also said her husband was “one of the gentlest, gentlest, kindest men” she has ever known. The statement also said that the couple had “built a life full of beauty, meaning, productivity and purpose,” which they share with “a beautiful, blended family” of 5 adult children and three “adorable” grandchildren.

They compared Andy Stewart's “painful” life with Martha Stewart to the “joyful, purposeful” existence he now leads. “Every day we openly express our gratitude for our love and for our life together,” the statement said. The couple concluded their statement by wishing their ex-wife and everybody else “the experience of loving and being loved, deeply and fully, and the peace that comes from such love.”

Meanwhile, it seems that Stewart may not have gotten much peace from participating within the documentary. In a telephone interview with the New York Times last week, She also commented on parts of the documentary, but for various reasons than her ex-husband.

The notoriously demanding media personality criticized the filmmakers for selecting unflattering camera angles of her and called the second half of the film “a little lazy.”

“Those final scenes where I look like a lonely old lady walking hunched over in the garden?” said Stewart. “Boy, I told him to get rid of those. And he refused. I hate these final scenes. Hate her.”

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